SEVEN MISTAKES MEN MAKE DURING SEX

When it comes to sex, men need a re-orientation in the way they think about women’s sexual needs.

Sex experts think that a change in thinking may improve the typical man’s sex life.

So, they suggest answers to the sex mistakes that most men make.

So, here we go…

• Mistake: You make sex start in the bedroom. Sex therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner, notes that while men may develop erection at the sight of a woman’s naked body, arousal doesn’t happen so fast for women.
Suggestion: Pave the way during the day by hugging, kissing, and holding hands. Have some fun together, and show you appreciate her. Feeling safe and secure in the relationship is key for a woman to really let loose during sex, Kerner says.

•Mistake:  You think you know what she wants. Women are good at faking orgasm, says Kerner. So, if she’s not enjoying the sex, you might not know it.
Suggestion: Don’t be afraid to ask questions like ‘How does this feel?’ or ‘Do you want something different?’ In other words, ask for directions.

• Mistake: Using same tactics. That something worked the first three times doesn’t mean it will work the next three times, says sex therapist Sari Cooper. What turns on a woman may depend on her mood, and her monthly cycle. Therefore, pay attention to your partner.
Suggestion: Try different things and see how she responds. When you find something that works, linger on it. Women often complain that men move on to the next thing just as they really start to enjoy an activity.

•Mistake: Doing the same foreplay. Expand your idea of foreplay. Some men focus on physical stimulation and often ignore mental stimulation, Kerner says.
Suggestion: While men get stirred up by what they see, women fantasize a lot during sex as part of the process of arousal. Join in — share a fantasy or a sexy memory.

• Mistake: Thinking sex alone would make her orgasm. For 80 per cent of women, intercourse alone won’t do the trick. This is because most sex positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris.
Suggestion: There are other ways to pleasure her, such as sex with the woman on top. To help her during sex, take time to get her going before you penetrate her.

• Mistake: Forgetting to seduce her. Women like to be seduced. This is sometimes more important than technique, Cooper says.

Suggestion: It helps to know what kind of turn-on your partner likes, whether it’s oral, visual, or mental. Also, if you like what you see, say so. Let a woman know how desirable she is, Barbach says.

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The Law Must Protect The Right of Every Child - Clifford Omozeghan

Clifford Omozeghian (Esq)

The Director of Legal Services/Company Secretary of the Federal Airport Authority of Nigeria (FAAN), Mr. Clifford Omozeghian (Esq) has frowned at the high rate of molestation of children in Nigeria he stated that the constitution of the country did not give express protection to the Nigeria child unlike other civilised country of the world. He made this disclosure when the leadership of the African Women Lawyers Association, Nigeria paid him a courtesy call in his office in Lagos. He noted that there is much talk about protection of the female without consideration for the male child, he however adviced that as the world marks Children Day it will be proper that the various selfless gender protection groups continue to agitate for the protection of the rights of of all children. 

Responding, The president of the Group, Mrs Mandy Demechi-Asagba said although they were more concerned about the female child because of her vulnerability, it is actually a fact that the law must protect the entire humanity. She however solicited for more more Nigerians to align with their cause in action or kind.

Members of the Legal Team of FAAN and the Executive Members of The African Women Lawyers Association. 

[BREAKING] Nigerian pilot, Ademilola Odujinrin, makes history as first African to fly the world solo

Ademilola Odunjinrin

A Nigerian pilot who works for Air Djibouti has become the first African pilot in history to fly solo around the world.

Ademilola “Lola” Odujinrin completed the final leg of his historic journey Wednesday afternoon, landing safely at Washington Dulles International Airport.

The pilot has completed the entire circumnavigation in a Cirrus SR22, stopping in more than 15 countries on five continents, returning to Washington DC, where his journey began back in September.

The flight is part of Project Transcend, a foundation which aims to inspire young people to achieve their goals, regardless of their personal circumstances.

Ademilola says: “Ever since I was a child, I dreamed of one day flying around the world. We have a responsibility to lead by example and follow our dreams. I want African children to think: ‘I can do this too!'”

I would like to extend my sincere gratitude to Air Djibouti’s Chairman, Aboubaker Omar Hadi, and Cardiff Aviation’s Chairman, Bruce Dickinson, who have supported me throughout this journey. Without them, this would not have been possible.”

Nigerian Airports To Experience Better Days - Clifford Omozeghian

Clifford Omozeghian

The New Director of Legal Services of The Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN) Clifford Omozeghian has said the Nigeria Airports will experience better days under the current Minister of State for Aviation, Senator Hadi Sirika. He disclosed that apart from the current renovation of the Abuja Airport runway, a lot of Airports in the country has been slated for renovation to meet the international operational standards of airports across the world.

During a brief interview with our correspondent in Lagos, he disclosed that bad days at the airports by air passengers and airline operators is over. The Director of Legal Services of FAAN stated that the new administration will not tolerate inefficiency and indiscipline and he said that very soon Nigerians will experience world class service at the airports accross the nation

A New Nigeria Must Start Now

A video of Nigerians clamouring for a new and effective begining. Please watch!!!

Federal Government of Nigeria Appoints A New Director of Legal/Company Secretary for FAAN

The Federal Government of Nigeria has appointed Barrister Clifford Omozeghian as the Director of Legal/Company Secretary of Federal Airport Authority of Nigeria (FAAN). Before his appointment he has worked in the National Assembly and he has been in active legal service since he was called to the Nigeria Bar in 2001. Clifford Omozehian is a dynamic young Nigerian who believe in positive changes. As he assume duties he has promised a visible and fast turn around in activities of the various airports in Nigeria.

Gov. Mimiko Decamps to PDP

After months of speculations, the Ondo state governor, Dr Olusegun Mimiko on Friday formally declared his intention to join the ruling Peoples Democratic Party(PDP).

In effect, Governor Mimiko has dumped his party, Labour Party(LP) he has sustained as its only governor and national leader since 2006.

The governor has already informed members of his cabinet and close political associates in a chain of meetings which took place on Friday at the Government House Akure.

Some of his aides were already on their way to their various local government areas as at the time of this report to inform their constituents of the governor’s decision.

Tom Ikimi To Decamp Back To PDP

A Former minister of foreign affairs, Chief Tom Ikimi and a chieftain of the All Progressives Congress (APC) has reportedly concluded plans to return to the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) which he left nearly 10 years ago to team up with opposition politicians, a source has told TheCable.

Internet Explorer slower than usual? It could be that last update

Is Internet Explorer running really slow after you dutifully installed the updates for it in last week's Patch Tuesday? Yup, you guessed it: the problem is in the update.

 

Microsoft issued a bulletin noting the MS14-037 or MS14-051 cumulative security updates for IE may allow web apps that implement consecutive dialog boxes to slow IE.

 

"(W)eb applications that implement consecutive modal dialog boxes may cause Internet Explorer to become slow and unresponsive over time. This issue occurs in Internet Explorer versions 7 through 11," it said.

 

A separate article on PC World said Microsoft has issued a hotfix for IE, for "basically every major version."

 

IE is the default browser in Microsoft's Windows operating system. Presently, Microsoft supports versions 7 to 11. — Joel Locsin/TJD, GMA News

Twitter to remove images of deceased users at the request of family members

In an announcement made this week, popular microblogging service Twitter reiterated its commitment to deal with images of its deceased users as requested by their family and other authorized individuals.

Twitter said that, at the request of the family members of the deceased, it will remove the images and videos of the deceased users from its site. However, the company also warned alongside that it may not be able to honor all requests for removal of images of the deceased.

Nigeria: Edo North's Unsettled Pair - Shagadi and Momoh

Opinion

By Usman Abudah

Alhaji Usman Shagadi

By tradition, I am not a politician, but nearly made a slip to join a political party over a year ago and I will explain my reasons for daring such a move: I saw the developments that were going on in my senatorial district by the state government and just retiring from the Federal Civil Service, I had thought that to identify with the progressive government from my ward level, would create a platform to enhance my contributions, but I had a shocking experience which quickly put me on the reverse gear.

Hon. Abubakar Momoh

The shock came from a blood relation whom I had assigned to handle the booking of chairs and canopies and when I telephoned him to ask how I can go about my registration at the ward level, he let out the shock: "you have to see our leaders back home before registration". I ignored his message and asked: "where is the ward register and are you not the one to effect my registration?"

"Yes, but the leaders have to be seen?" he repeated.

"Who are they?" I asked.

Police arrest 8 for snatching 1301 voter cards in Delta

No fewer than eight suspected snatchers of Permanent Voter Cards (PVCs), have been apprehended by the Nigerian Police in Delta State, last weekend.This is just as no fewer than 1, 301 PVC were recovered from the hoodlums, some of whom are still on the run.

 

A three-day distribution of the cards by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), commenced last Friday at various polling units when the hoodlums hijacked the items. The State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Celestina Kalu, who disclosed the incident on Wednesday, said that about 503 PVCs were last Sunday, snatched from a youth corps member by hoodlums at Units 17 and 18 in Jeremi Ward 2, Ughelli South Local Government Area.

Edo Line Workers blast PDP Chairman, back Chief Adun

The Workers of Edo Line have re-affirmed their confidence in the leadership of Chief Dr. John Osamede Adun JP, the Ayobahan of Benin Kingdom and a transport guru as the sole administrator, to take the first premier transport company to the next level even as they carpeted Edo State PDP Chairman, Chief Dan Orbih over his comments on Adun’s appointment.

Chief Adun, was recently appointed by the Edo State Governor, Comrade Adams Oshiomhole, to resuscitate the Edo Line after it was closed down in 2010.

Edo Line workers through Mr. Josiah Osazuwa, while reacting to the inflammatory remarks credited to a stalwart of the opposition party, PDP in the state, over the appointment of the Benin based transporter, as the sole administrator by the state government.

Edo State APC defectors face uphill task

Political uncertainty awaits those who defected from    the Edo State chapter of the All Progressives Congress (APC) to the rival Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) as their looming larger than life carriage in their former party was reportedly curtailed in the PDP, a major defector lamented recently.
The now PDP chieftain, who did not want to be named, said: “Those of us who defected were asked to queue up and relinquish or dissolve our hierarchy in our former party to the leadership of our new party.

"Politics and democracy is when the people lead, when the people choose..." - Kingsley Ugabi, Edo State House of Assembly Aspirant

An Except of an interview with Kingsley Oghenakhogie Ugabi, an Edo State House of Assembly Aspirant under the All Progressives  Congress  (APC) by our Reporter  Nnamdi Okafor                      

WHO IS KINGSLEY UGABI?

Kingsley Oghenakhogie Ugabi was born 15^thApril 1974 to the family of Chief and Mrs Vincent Ugabi.

I am a graduate of Banking and Finance and an MBA holder

A chartered Public Finance Certificate holder of the Chartered Institute of Local Government and Public Administration of Nigeria. A member of the Nigeria Institute of Management (NIM).

Immediately after my University education 15 years ago, I started work in a Private Petroleum Product Marketing Company (Sea Petroleum and Gas Ltd) in Lagos as an internal auditor. In the same Company I have worked in different Managerial capacities. I have also worked briefly with the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) Lagos. I completed my NYSC Programme with Nigeria Gas Company Warri a subsidiary of NNPC. In the course of my job I have attended several courses, workshops and seminars both home and abroad. I sponsored and

How Imo Governor 'Rochas Okorocha' Was Embarrassed at Iriji Mbaise New Yam Festival

The Imo state governor, Rochas Okorocha was severely embarrassed at the last Iriji Mbaise New Yam Festival in the state.

THIS DAY reported that since his election in 2011, Okorocha who attended the ceremony for the first time this year and that at some point, the festival turned into a political rally of sorts with Okorocha and the Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives, Chief Emeka Ihedioha, relentlessly fighting for supremacy.

The Mbaise people were not impressed with Okorocha's behavior and so his microphone was intermittently switched off for as long as five minutes, while the people jeered at him.

When the Governor's microphone was switched off a second time during the event, a free for all between Okorocha’s supporters and those of Ihedioha broke but the security personnel on ground contained it in good time before whisking the governor away to safety.

 
 

Robbers snatch man’s car, throw away 3-month baby, rape wife to stupor

Tears flowed freely as people beheld the pathetic sight of a middle-aged nursing mother whose three-month old baby was thrown into the bush while an eight-man gang of devilish souls raped her to a point of uncon­sciousness right in the presence of her husband.

The woman (names with held) who had bruises all over her body especially in the waist region could barely stand unaided when she was sighted at the headquarters of the Kogi State Police Command. Continue..


Sunnews gathered that the suspects waylaid the couple on their way to the village, and dispossessed the husband and wife of their cash and valuables at gunpoint. Then they took them in the family car to a near­by bush where they tied the husband and raped the wife who was at that time breast feeding her three-month-old baby.

It was learnt that one of the armed robbers on getting to the bush slapped the wife and forcibly took the baby away from her hands and threw the baby aside. He pointed a gun to her head and ordered her to undress.

For more than two hours, the eight robbers, one after the other, there­after engaged the poor woman in a marathon sex while the husband watched helplessly and the hapless innocent baby cried profusely.
Parading the suspects before newsmen, the Acting Commissioner of Police, Mr Abiodun Odude said the family was travelling from Ogugu in Olamaboro Local Government Area, Kogi State to Iga-Ikeje when the robbers accosted them.

Odude said the victim (names withheld) a native of Ogugu reported at the Olamaboro Police Division and stated that he was travelling in his Toyota Corolla car with his wife and baby when suddenly some eight armed robbers accosted them, dis­possessing them of their car, N6600 cash and mobile phone sets.

The alleged robbers then bundled them into the vehicle and drove them inside the bush about two kilometres from the road, where the man was tied to a tree prior to raping the wife. Giving further explanation of what transpired, he said the wife who was oblivious of their plan as she was crying and begging them not to kill her husband. This prompt­ed one of the robbers to give her a vicious slap, took the baby away and ordered her to undress, while point­ing a gun to her head.
He said the woman fainted after the ordeal.

Done with their evil business, they sons-of-the devil tied up the woman’s legs and drove away in the car.

After about 40 minutes, the woman regained consciousness, struggled to free herself and walked to a nearby village, where she informed a group of vigilantes, who later rescued the husband.
On receiving the report, a police patrol team led by Mr. Mbang Eteng, an Assistant Superintendent of Police tracked down and arrested two of the robbers, whose names were given as Vincent Oguche from an uncompleted building, and Femi Simon, who attempted to run away, but was overpowered by policemen and both of them taken into custody.

The police said the two suspects in the course of interrogation con­fessed to the crime and thereafter led the detectives to their hideout, where the stolen car, assorted guns and handsets were recovered. The names of two other members of the gang were given as Friday Oguche and Joe Agbo. The police are still on the trail of the remaining four mem­bers who are still at large.

Vincent Oguche while acknowl­edging that he and the others actually committed the heinous crime, explained why they raped the woman despite that she was nursing a baby, saying: “We were not in our right sense because we were very high on drugs.”

Femi Simon who claimed to be a native of Iyah Gbede in Ijumu Local Government Area of the state said he was an unemployed driver who was conscripted into the deal. He said he could not control his libido when he saw his comrades-in-crime ‘enjoying themselves’ so he had to join them to have a taste of the woman.

The police rebuffed the request to speak with the woman, firmly saying she should be left alone on account of the horrendous ordeal she expe­rienced.

Culled from sunnewsonline.com

WHO approves experimental drugs as Ebola death toll tops 1,000

The World Health Organisation authorised the use of experimental drugs in the fight against Ebola on Tuesday as the death toll topped 1,000 and a Spanish priest became the first European to succumb to the latest outbreak of the virus. The declaration by the UN’s health agency came after a US company that makes an experimental serum said it had sent all its available supplies to hard-hit west Africa.

“In the particular circumstances of this outbreak, and provided certain conditions are met... it is ethical to offer unproven interventions with as yet unknown efficacy and adverse effects,” the WHO said in a statement following a teleconference between medical experts.

The current outbreak, described as the worst since Ebola was first discovered four decades ago, has now killed 1,013 people since early this year, the WHO said.

Cases have so far been limited to Guinea, Liberia, Sierra Leone and Nigeria, all in west Africa where ill-equipped and fragile health systems are struggling to cope.

Elderly Spanish priest Miguel Pajares, who became infected while helping patients in Liberia, died in a Madrid hospital on Tuesday, five days after being evacuated.

Monrovia said it had requested samples of an experimental drug, ZMapp, that has shown some positive effects on two US aid workers but failed to save the Spanish priest.

Supplies would be brought in by a representative of the US government later this week, the Liberian government said.

There is currently no available cure or vaccine for Ebola, which the WHO has declared a global public health emergency, and the use of experimental drugs has stoked an ethical debate.

Despite promising results for the ZMapp treatment, made by private US company Mapp Biopharmaceutical, it is still in an early phase of development and had only been tested previously on monkeys.

ZMapp is in very short supply, but its use on the Western aid workers evacuated to the United States last week triggered controversy and demands that it be made available in Africa.

Mapp said it had sent all its available supplies to West Africa.

“In responding to the request received this weekend from a West African nation, the available supply of ZMapp is exhausted,” it said in a statement.

“Any decision to use ZMapp must be made by the patients’ medical team,” it said, adding that the drug was “provided at no cost in all cases”.

The company did not reveal which nation received the doses, or how many were sent.

But the Liberian presidency said: “The White House and the United States Food and Drug Administration have approved the request for sample doses of experimental serum to treat Liberian doctors who are currently infected with the deadly Ebola virus disease.”

Panic is stalking the impoverished countries ravaged by the disease in west Africa, where drastic containment measures are causing transport chaos, price hikes and food shortages, and stoking fears that people could die of hunger.

Numerous countries around the globe have imposed emergency measures, including flight bans and improved health screenings.

In Liberia — where Ebola has already claimed almost 370 lives — a third province was placed under quarantine on Monday.

President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf also banned state officials from travelling abroad for a month and ordered those outside the country to return home within a week.

Guinea, Liberia and Sierra Leone account for the bulk of the cases, but Nigeria, Africa’s most populous country, has also counted two deaths.

And Sierra Leone President Ernest Bai Koroma expressed his “utter dismay” at the “slow pace” of the international community in responding to the outbreak, during a hospital visit on Monday.

Eight Chinese medical workers who treated patients with Ebola have been placed in quarantine in Sierra Leone, Beijing’s ambassador said on Monday, but would not be drawn on whether they were displaying symptoms of the disease.

In addition, 24 nurses have been quarantined, health officials said, while a senior physician had contracted Ebola but was responding well to treatment.

The nation’s sole virologist, who was at the forefront of its battle against the epidemic, died from Ebola last month.

As countries around the world were on alert, Japan said it was evacuating two dozen staff from Guinea, Liberia and Sierra Leone.

The Ivory Coast announced on Monday that it was banning all flights from the three nations and said it had turned back around 100 Liberians trying to flee across the border.

Niger, which also has yet to confirm any cases, has put in place an “emergency plan” to train health workers and boost checks at borders, airports and stations.

Togo has also strengthened health screenings.

In Senegal, a newspaper editor was detained by police for spreading “false information” after his paper claimed there were five Ebola cases in the country, which authorities have denied.

Spanish priest infected with Ebola in Liberia dies in hospital

The 75 year old Spanish priest who was infected with the Ebola virus in Liberia and evacuated to Spain to get better treatment has died, a Madrid spokeswoman from Madrid Health authorities said this morning.

Fr. Miguel Pajares, who was airlifted from Liberia on August 7 after contracting the disease while working for a non-governmental organization in the African country started using the experimental drug, Zmapp last Saturday 9th August but sadly lost the battle to the deadly virus. He was being treated at Carlos III hospital Madrid where he had been quarantined since his return from Liberia.

This will be the first European that has died from the recent outbreak of the deadly virus